friends

I hate it when friends don't listen. Example? When they ask you if you're going to a Halloween (using this example cuz it's Halloween time) party, and you say I think. They automatically assume that you're going and start making plans.  Then when you don't show, they text asking where you were. You say back, "I said, that I thought i was going." Then they bite your head off? Why? Because they assumed automatically that you were going, and they disappoint themselves. I don't get why, they do that but they do.